Church Sexual Abuse comprises a wide-range of illegal and heinous acts often commited against children and tweens by pedophilic priests or other church employees involving sexual abuse of varying degrees. The sexual assault may be a one-off, non-consensual scroll barencounter or it might involve numerous assaults inside an ongoing interaction. For example, an ongoing “trusting” interaction with a young child spawned by the predatory behavior of a clergy associate, blanketed by the trust and reverence imputed to a member of the clergy, leading to non-consensual sexual attack acts of molestation.
Within nearly all claimed Priest or Clergy Sexual Abuse scenarios, the short-coming by the Clergy member’s employer to entirely, adequately and immediately report the offense to law enforcement and other authorities, or its continuing failure to research, handle and resolve fully with the situation increases the harm on the assault survivor, the community and potentially others. Recent Clergy Sexual Assault cases covered in the press uncover these short-comings, including “pass-the-trash” scenarios where the predator frequently a priest in the Catholic Church, is suddenly moved from one location to another merely to continue his predatory, criminal action on an innocent parish community.
Priest and Clergy Sexual Abuse & Retribution
Not a day passes without a news headline reporting regarding sexual abuse and molestation of children by pedophile priests, or the legacy of the assault on the survivors and their families. If
massachusetts priests accused of abuse are a survivor of sexual assault from a priest or other clergy member, these stories are most likely to act as an echo chamber, reverberating the horror, shame, guilt and other unwelcome thoughts hurting your wellness. Encouraged by the social movement and other channels that encourage them to reveal the assault they suffered, victims of assault are increasingly employing the legal system to compensate them for the lifelong damage and injury they have experienced.
If you are a victim of abuse commited by a priest, the impact of the abuse on your life and core belief system may be incalculable. Regardless, holding the responsible person and institutions to blame for their crimes and failures may provide an amount of justice and recompense to abuse victims. Commonly, victims can assert their legal rights through confidential mediation therein avoiding the need for litigation. But, if litigation is required, a motion might be filed where the victim can remain anonymous.
Abusive Behavior
All predators, to varying degrees, use predatory tricks that are generally referred to as grooming, aiming at a potential abuse victim. Below is a list of grooming actions used by predators who are in a position of authority relative to the subordinate child.
Grooming
Grooming is a major part of a predator’s strategy. In a church setting, the clergy member is revered as God’s representative. In this setting, the predator often works closely with small numbers of children, identifying each child’s needs, weaknesses and situations. Once a victim is identified, these vulnerabilities – like violent family setting, isolation, low self-esteem, emotional neediness, attention-seeking – might be systematically leveraged in the following ways:
Trust
A predator will initially work to gain the child’s trust. This step is most difficult to notice as church communities are often tight-knit and personal relation with clergy is commonplace. Here, the assaulter can feign sincere interest in the child’s wellness and development – both emotional and religious.
Reliance
As a predator creates a trusting relationship with the potential victim and oftentimes their family members, the child will start to rely more and more on the predator for whatever need it is that the priest is exploiting and fulfilling. The child may spend increased time with the priest, feeling more comfortable with the relationship and relying on its stability and security. In addition to attention and affection, the possible target might receive presents from the priest, including valuable, intangible presents like blessings and special recognition.
Isolation
While grooming progresses, the predator may try to isolate the potential target. This might result in single counseling meetings, meals or other forms of one-on-one isolated encounters.
Sexualization
The predator may start to de-sensitize the target from reacting negatively to touching, caressing and various actions that lead to sexual interaction. This might begin with breaking the physical-touch barrier, or verbally, with suggestive messages to determine the victim’s response to the progression. This will continue until the relationship advances to one of a physical, sexual nature.
Maintenance
As the sexual relationship is created, the predator will try to keep control of the child and the continued interaction. The predator will likely want to manipulate the child by continuing to make the victim feel special and worthy. The predator will keep exploiting the target by whatever ways necessary to maintain the inappropriate physical relationship.
Impact on Clergy Abuse Survivors
The effect of childhood assault on the victim can be overwhelming and life-changing. Several clergy assault survivors suffer from long-term effects of the assault including depression, disturbed sleeping, anxiety, post-traumatic stress, low self-esteem, suicidal thoughts, substance abuse and eating patterns, and problems establishing and maintaining healthy relationships. Individualized treatment and support groups can assist victims overcome these effects.
Legally, a survivor of Clergy Sexual Assault may recover financial compensation from the predator and, more commonly, from the religious organization for its failure to protect the victim from the abuse, as well as failures or deficiencies in its method of reviewing and resolving to reports of assault. If you are a survivor of Priest or Clergy Sexual Assault and would like to confidentially discuss your situation and your legal options, we are ready to speak with you.